Hello! If you’re here right now, you probably know me either IRL or through IG. Thanks for being interested enough to be here at the beginning of this thing with me! Though I am unsure of everything I want this space to be, I know I have a lot of thoughts, a lot to say, and need a place to call home for a while and this seems like the most feasible solution.
For starters, we… [I say ‘WE’ a lot. It happened after marriage. It happened after the big moments. We is me and my righthand JQ] live an unconventional life to say the least. In the nine years of US, we have moved over 10 times, have called 5 states home with even more cities in that mix, and now we have entered a whole new ballgame. Currently we are living a new life of freedom and detachment and are attempting to navigate our way through it. Covid took a lot away from us. It took much away from many. For us, it also gave us the will to realize we were not truly happy in that last chapter. It gave use an opening we would have never unlocked, made a choice for us we were probably never planning on making. The scariest part is the leap of faith, so we jumped and didn’t look back.
So here we are. In the cusps of change. What better time to start this thing, right? We might fu*k some things up, will definitely make some left turns and hopefully a lot of right ones. We sure as hell don’t know what the future looks like, but for the first time in a long time, I can’t wait to unfold it all. We’re leaving it in God’s hands and I’m no longer fighting for the driver’s seat. Things will happen when they are supposed to and for now we are doing what’s best for us, for now. Something 2020 taught me was to be kinder, love bigger, hone in on the good rather than bad, enjoy every moment, no matter how small, resolve rather than resist & don’t keep putting yourself on hold, because tmrw really isn’t promised. And with that new mindset came a new version of myself I am eager to spend more time with.
